Candle Light Dinner

Once upon a time there was a guy who used to live in a small town of Mathura. His name was Alok. He was pushing hard to achieve his ultimate aim of pursuing MBA from a reputed foreign university. He worked hard for the GMAT and voila! He ended up in Harvard Business School.

Ambience of the new place was making him crazy. He was relishing the surroundings of the new place with his newly made pals Stephen, Charles, Maria and Jenifer.  Alok explored more and more about the place and the culture with four of them. They used to roam around the place together, party together and study together. They become helluva good friends.  

Alok never realized but during this time he started liking Jenifer. The more time they spent together, his feelings for her became stronger.  Same was the case with Jenifer; she liked the simplicity of Alok. Both of them never talked about their feelings for a long time. Alok was diffident about his feelings for Jenifer. But, finally one fine day when Jenifer and Alok were studying alone in the library Jenifer confessed about her feelings. Alok was on cloud nine! He was singing songs; they talked whole day. By the end of the day Jenifer was glad that she had found a very loving and romantic boyfriend for her. Before going to their hostels Alok gave a tight hug to Jenifer and she felt ecstatic.

It was 11 p.m. in the clock Alok’s phone beeped and he saw an SMS from Jenifer saying:  “What about a dinner tomorrow?”

He replied: “I will be there waiting for you in the down town tomorrow 8 pm” and went to sleep.

Next day he woke up early in the morning. He was in high spirits throughout the day and was waiting eagerly for the day to end. He read few romantic stories in the afternoon.  As the time was coming closer he was getting more excited. Soon he started getting ready and reached the place by 7:45.

He waited for around half an hour and there she was! She was wearing a red gown and she looked ravishing. She came towards him and said that- “I've already booked a table for a romantic candle light dinner.”

Both of them sat on their table. Waiter came and lit up the candle and placed two glasses of red wine along with the menu cards. Jenifer told Alok that how excited she was whole day, but Alok looked lost in his thoughts. He was not saying anything but just mumbling.  She came closer to him and asked what happened to him. He didn’t respond even then.

She felt resentful but ordered few things to eat. Both of them ate their dinner mutely and came out of the restaurant. She said “I love you” before parting.  Alok did not reply.

He returned to his hostel; now he was feeling bit relaxed. He logged into his facebook account and updated his status:

I can never understand the romance of candles. I have seen too many power cuts. I am an Indian.
P.S.- @Jenifer: Love you too!

तलाश (In search of someone)

एक खूबसूरत चेहरे की तलाश है,
जो मेरे लिए खास है,
दिल में मेरे,
जिसका प्यारा सा एहसास है,
लगता है वो कही आस पास है.


ढूंढता हूँ उसको, 
जो आके महका दे मेरा जीवन,
जिसको चाहे मेरा मन,
दूंगा उसे इतना प्यार,
ग़र करे वो मुझसे इकरार,
पहनाऊ उसे बाहों के हार,
अब यही मेरे दिल की आस है,
एक खूबसूरत चेहरे की तलाश है.


जो समझे मेरी नज़रों की इशारे,
जिसका दिल सिर्फ मुझे पुकारे,
उसपे दिल मैं जाऊं अपना हार,
कर दूँ अपनी जां मैं निसार,
अभी तो 'मोहब्बत' के लिए,
सिर्फ़ ये ज़मीं और आकाश है,
एक खूबसूरत चेहरे की तलाश है.

Social Networking - Truth behind the lies!

Few days back I was enjoying the party with my friends. It was my placement party. I was placed in Facebook. It was my dream job after working on a hacking project offered to me by leading IT Company of India during my engineering. My parents, my family members were really very happy. I was enjoying my time with Rolika as well and I was about to propose her. Rolika was my girlfriend. Everything seemed so perfect; I was able to imagine bright future ahead then.

But, today I am here in a very different situation.  At one instance I was thinking about my friends and on the other about Rolika. How can I forget those candle light dinners, those long drives, walking along with her in the rain? Those sleepless nights in the hostel with friends, booze parties, road trips! Myriad thoughts and feelings were screaming inside me. I was lost in my thoughts when a cop came and said “somebody is here to see you.”

It was Aisha, a friend of mine who completed her law this year itself.

Hi Sachin!

I could not speak a single word. She tried to console me. “I am with you, your friends, family everyone is with you. Just have faith in god and everything will be fine.”

“I have lost my future, my love and even I have lost my self-respect, how can everything be fine?”

Why it happened to me? Why? Why? Why? (My eyes broke into the tears and silence of jail made my cry even louder)

P.S.- I am trying a series of story, so for the coming parts please follow the blog.

Why IITians Should Do Start Up?

Few days ago I came across the article Why only few number of IIT kids end up doing startups. And then there was another article titled The 'Real' Reason Why Few IITians Do A StartUp; which is answer to the previous one. Being students of premiere institutes people expect a lot from IITians, so their arguments are totally correct. And matching upto once expectation is never possible. So I am not gonna add to that; but I will write about Why IITians should do a startup.

In India people are crazy about IITs and IITians, because IITs provide you a feeling of security. Once a child comes in ninth standard, his parents start expecting him to clear the JEE. It's not because of their craziness but they want a secure future for their child. Yes, IITs give you a secure future (in most of the cases). And it's not the degree which you get from IIT; but when you are in IIT you somehow develop certain qualities, skills and confidence that help you throughout your life.

Second reason behind craziness towards IITs is the privilege that IITians get. "Life doesn't give you a second chance, but an IIT does." Personally this is the good thing about IITs, you can always get a second chance. What it means is you start something and you failed after two years you can always opt a good job or you can go for your higher studies, but its not the case with other students of India.

So, I am asking  you to get a dream (an idea), believe in that dream, use that privilege, that confidence, those skills in chasing your dream (building a great product). Because an I-Bank or consulting company do not worth those skills. You will not be earning hefty in initial phases, but the skills you will be learning in the process will be priceless. Because as a start-up entrepreneur at times you will create your product, write the code, market your product, hire and train interns, deliver a keynote, write a blog about your company and list will go on. And if two or three years down the line your start up fails, you can always go for a job or higher studies with those tremendous skills. But I will not suggest you to do that, I will suggest  you to dream again.

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ज़िन्दगी

ज़िन्दगी की राह का एक और मुक़ाम पूरा हुआ,
कभी खुशियाँ मिली तो कभी ग़म साथ हुआ,
कुछ पुराने चेहरे थे साथ,
तो कुछ नए चेहरों का दीदार हुआ,
किसी ने हंसाया, किसी ने रुलाया,
और किसी  ने दर्द में भी साथ दिया,
पर 'माँ' के आँचल का मुझ पर हमेशा साया हुआ,
फिर सफ़र में मिली एक अनदेखी अनजानी सी 'वो',
जिसका साथ पाकर मुझे भी ज़िन्दगी जीने का एहसास हुआ,
दोस्तों के साथ बीते कुछ खुशनुमा पल,
और मुझे भी दोस्ती का एहसास हुआ,
सालों तक रहेगा ये साथ हमारा,
मेरे दिल को कुछ ऐसा एहसास हुआ,
बस है ये गुज़ारिश छोड़ना ना साथ मेरा,
कि दुनिया कहे मैं सबसे तन्हा हुआ,
अगर हो कोई गिला शिकवा तो भूल जाना,
माफ़ी मांगने को मैं दिल से तैयार हुआ.

India and Entrepreneurs

When I look at the poor villagers who are living their lives on farming and other small businesses such as by selling milk or by carpentry or by running small poultry farms, every time it reflects that there is a significant gap between urban India and rural India .

Today India is developing with a good pace, and more contribution towards development is of urban areas. Imagine if Indian villages or rural India will also grow with the same pace, then it won’t be very hard for India to become the ‘World’s Largest Economy’.Government of India is continuously implementing different policies to bring out changes; but somewhere we are lacking behind. Sometimes it is because of lack of funds, loopholes in those policies and sometimes it is because of our corrupted system. We are trying hard in last few years but are not able to overcome this situation. So few of us might have this question in our mind - Is there no way for villages to catch up that pace? Some wise person has said “Nothing is Impossible.”  So, there comes the ray of hope ‘Entrepreneurship’.

Entrepreneurs with their splendid ideas and motivation can bring that change. In recent times we have already seen start-ups which are turning into big companies just because these entrepreneurs have that motivation and passion towards their idea and they work hard for it. Development of rural areas will not be an arduous task for these entrepreneurs. But, currently E-commerce/ Internet based start-ups have become a trend in India while 70% of Indians live in villages and around 30% of total are below poverty line (in rural areas it’s even more). These internet based start-ups are increasing consumerism; also these start-ups are not coming up with any technological advancement.According to me entrepreneurs should address the large scale problems. Their ideas should primarily focus on rural areas, social problems and technological advancement. When I look at entrepreneurship it’s all about believing and working on an idea using the core competencies around. But unfortunately today’s Indian entrepreneurs are not focusing on core competencies of India. India has good fertile land and larger work force in rural areas; so their ideas should revolve around the same. There have been few start-ups which are very successful today which are addressing the problems of rural areas, one such example is SELCO labs. 

To conclude I would say entrepreneurs should work around the problems in rural areas and villages, in this way they can play more significant role in development of India and that day will be not far when India will be the World’s largest economy.

P.S.- I know I am too young to write on this, and I am currently working on Internet based start-up itself. But this was my perspective towards what role should entrepreneurs play in development of India.

नसीब (Destiny)

मैं तुझसे कितनी दूर हूँ,
और तू मुझसे दूर होकर,
मेरे कितने करीब,
हाय कैसा ये मेरा 'नसीब'.

जब तुझे देखा था पहली बार,
हो गया था मुझे तुझसे प्यार,
मन ही मन मैं तुझसे करता रहा प्यार,
कर न सका मैं तुझसे इकरार,
मैं हो न सका तेरे करीब,
हाय कैसा ये मेरा 'नसीब'.

एक दिन आया मेरे दिल में ख्याल,
शायद तुझे भी है मेरे प्यार का एहसास,
पर तुने मेरे कहने का किया इंतज़ार,
करते रहे हम एक दुसरे से प्यार,
लम्हा था वो कैसा अजीब,
हाय कैसा ये मेरा 'नसीब'.

एक दिन चली गयी तू मुझसे दूर,
रह गया मैं तन्हा और अकेला,
अपने को गम में धकेला,
तेरे प्यार में टूटा मैं,
सब कुछ खोकर हो गया गरीब,
हाय कैसा ये मेरा 'नसीब'!

Book Review: The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

This time I picked up the book for reading “The monk who sold his Ferrari” by Robin S Sharma. You are reading this review, may be this is one of the effect of the book because it says “you should share good things with others”. Writing a review for this book is just like adding a drop of water to the sea, but I think it is good to start off. So here it goes!

The monk who sold his ferrai is story of a lawyer Julian who believes in materialism and does not give any thought to anything apart from his law practice. One day Julian collapses with heart attack. He recognizes this omen as 'Awakening Call'. Now he wants to live more joyful and spiritual life thus he start his journey to the mystical land of India. After going through various places he finally reaches to the mountains of Himalaya and there he finds sages of Sivana, who knew all secrets of how to live a joyful life with simplicity, serenity and harmony. One of the sages Yogi Raman treats him as a student on a promise that after learning all the methods he will go to the west and pass on the message to others.

John, who is a friend of Julian and a co-worker, is narrating this story. Now Julian has returned from India and one can notice tremendous change in his personality and wisdom. He appears in front of John to pass on the wisdom and techniques he learned during his odyssey to India.

Now rest of the book revolves around seven methods to live a better, joyful and spiritual life. These seven sermons are based on different techniques such as “heart of rose”, “secret of lake”, “art of self-leadership”,” do the things you fear”, “Yoga”, “mantras”, “power of discipline” etc.   By practicing them, you can lead to state of self-mastery. Book also talks about “the ultimate purpose of life.”

John being a good learner asks questions quite frequently, which clears the doubts of reader as well and makes book self-explanatory. 

I felt great reading about the rich ancient Indian culture. Being an Indian I am sure you have heard of most of the techniques and have practiced some of them. But in the recent time we are getting inclined towards western culture and forgetting the ancient Indian culture. In one of the chapter’s book also says: “Books do not teach you anything new, they simply help you to see what is already within yourself.”

So I would suggest you to read this book if you are seeking a personal change in your life, if you are looking for tools and tips which can make your life more joyful and delightful. You never know this book may act as an ‘Awakening Call' for you.